I haven’t written for my blog in quite some time. I could chalk it up to being busy or the numerous changes going on in our lives from moving twice in one month to Sean’s ordination and getting settled into our new home. The truth? I’ve been uninspired. I haven’t felt called to write anything that I thought would be relatable or meaningful in any way. That was the whole reason I started this blog was to connect like-minded people and share my experiences and give advice where I can and to share my faith and love of Christ. And lately I haven’t had any words that I thought were worth reading. But, now I do. In light of the murder of Charlie Kirk, I have something to say, not just to the mothers who read my posts or the Christians, but to everyone. Because his death wasn’t just the loss of a man who was fervent in his faith, but it marks a turning point in our country. More voices are rising up to take his place and finish what he started, and I plan to be one of them.
Why Christians Must Speak Up in Dark Times
For too long, I’ve skirted around difficult conversations with others, thinking that I wasn’t the right person to talk about my faith and religion in this country because I’m not the most knowledgeable on the intricate details of the Bible. That I didn’t want to say the wrong thing or say something heretical despite knowing my faith. Fear kept me silent for years, not wanting to step on toes or cause conflicts, but as Christians, when we see wrongdoing and hear of evil, we are called to speak out against it. Ephesians 4:11 says, “Take no part in the unfruitful works of darkness, but instead expose them.” We are called to expose evil, to shine the light of Christ in the darkness. To be the pillars of salt, reflecting the love of Christ and his glory onto those who dwell in sin and spiritual death.
So why exactly do I have this sudden change of heart? It’s not just because we have lost a voice, one who was tenacious in the spreading of the Law and Gospel, although that does play a part. No, it’s because of the reaction of this country to the loss of this man. So many mourn, they pray for his family and for the state of our country. But there are also many of those who celebrate the murder of a man who spoke truths they didn’t want to hear.
There are those who are excited about the death of someone solely because he had differing views and opinions. Do I agree with absolutely everything Charlie Kirk has ever said? No, I don’t. I find it hard to believe that any two people could completely agree on every single opinion of every single subject. But just because you view things differently than another person, does not mean that they should die for it. If we flip that coin, shouldn’t you die for having a conflicting conviction? No. Murder is never the answer. Making Tiktok videos of yourself saying that you’re glad another person is dead is a far cry past childish, it’s inhumane.
Those who are rejoicing over the fact that a woman lost her husband and children now have to grow up without their loving father are stuck in an egregious mindset. They’ve been so thoroughly lied to and brainwashed by those they idolize that they have no sense of true morality left. They have been led so far away from Christ and we must be the beacons to them in the darkness of the paths they follow. We must pray for them as they revel in such an abhorrent act. We must pray that they see the error of their ways, otherwise, what hope do we have for the future of our country? What hope do we have for the future of our children and our grandchildren?
Bible Verses That Call Us to Expose Evil
- John 3:20, “For everyone who does wicked things hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his works should be exposed.”
- Isaiah 5:20, “Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter!”
- Romans 12:21, “Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.”
- 1 Thessalonians 5:22, “Abstain from every form of evil.”
- Proverbs 6:16-19, “There are six things that the Lord hates, seven that are an abomination to him: haughty eyes, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked plans, feet that make haste to run to evil, a false witness who breathes out lies, and one who sows discord among brothers.”
These are just a small example of the plethora of verses in the Bible that tell us to run from evil and to speak out against it. Even if you are not Christian, it is plain to see the evil thriving amongst us. That our rights to free speech are being threatened. That the morality of many in this country is twisted and circling the drain. When did we all become so blind to the blight of others? When did the love for our neighbors turn into something so foul? So many preach of tolerance, but where is theirs? To the point where we cannot debate over the state of things without fear of death? When did we stray SO far away from one another that we can no longer love someone who sees the world differently? How have we become so self-absorbed, so solely interested in ourselves and out of touch with reality, that we mock the suffering and grief around us?
So How Should We Respond to this Tragedy?
If you are one grieving this loss, use it to fuel you. Use it to speak out against the injustice and immorality that Charlie was so against. Do not fight hate with hate, no one wins in that scenario. When did anyone change their heart for the better because someone spewed foul words? Do not bring more darkness, do not tear others down, but educate, debate (not argue, but DISCUSS), listen, and most importantly LOVE. Does someone whose heart is full have room for hate?
If you are someone who felt happiness, who was pleased by this atrocity, the Lord still loves you. You may not be in the place to hear it, you may not WANT to hear it, but you need to. The Lord does not stop loving because you have turned away from Him. He does not stop loving because you have done or said unkind or hurtful things towards another. Most people have done those things. We are ALL sinners. But you will forever feel this hardness in your heart, this hatred, until you turn away from it and let the Lord in.
To my fellow Christians, now is not the time to be lukewarm. Now is not the time to hide or be ashamed of your faith. Our Lord has never wanted you to be finicky or flighty in your relationship with Him, to put your earthly wants and desires above proclaiming His love and saving grace. Let your hearts be on fire. Let Christ’s love shine through you. Let us pull our brothers and sisters out of the darkness so that they, too, may know the unconditional love that we do.
We will likely hear many theories on why this tragedy occurred. One thing is for certain, that this event has not silenced those who love the Lord. It will not quiet those who stand for what is right. We will speak up, not just for ourselves, but for those who have no voice. We take comfort in knowing that Charlie Kirk is now resting with our Lord, whom he devoted his life to. We pray for his wife and children and that they may find solace in that knowledge amidst their grief.

“If you believe in something, you need to have the courage to fight for those ideas – not run away from them or try to silence them.” – Charlie Kirk
You can find more of Kirk’s work at https://tpusa.com/ . Read more about the Christian perspective in the current climate of today’s society: https://fionalikefromshrek.com/through-uncertain-times/
How do you think Christians should respond in times like this?